LOOKING FOR MY DAUGHTERS.

SARAH AND SAMMY GOULDEN


I want to make it clear that I have never forgot you both, I could not stay in contact as your mother did not give me any information where you were, your mum for many years was quite mind set on me never seeing you both and I did not agree with that as my intensions were like any fathers intension when they love there children, I don't care what your mum thinks I am your father and by law she has no power when you get to a certain age, I just hope that even after all these years you believe that I and my family still have a position in our hearts for you both as you both are so important to us.

We talk about you both all the time and I still dream of having you both back in our lives as I have always wanted my girls safe, happy and healthy.

To be honest it could have been a better situation If your mum keep kept the contact but as she never wanted me in your lives its made it a lot harder to bond with you both as all these years she has possibly told you her side of the stories making me out to be bad, however what I don't know I cannot correct as they say.

For many years this page has been up on the net, almost everyday I checked to see if you had contacted me as education system now includes computers and I know at some point you both will have access to the internet, so I left this page hoping you could contact me.

I hope you want to contact me as to be honest you are both my daughters and I have not been allowed the opportunity as your mum was quite determined for me to have no access, I did not wanted to be the un-named father in your life, your mum created this for me.

I did have access all those years ago and I have some problems see you both as my sisters oldest son was severely burnt which made it difficult as my sister mainly came with me to get you both in selected areas that your mum wanted me to get you from, I was never told were you live properly and I only have a mobile number which eventually was turned off and obviously severed the contact between me you two.

Anyway the page was the net for a good 8 years, I not positive approx but as around that time, anyway on May 1st I received this message in an email

"bck off the children dont want anything to do wiv you u cant
even call yr self there dad"

The sender who I have never heard of really has no say what happened between me and your mum, its basically none of there business anyway after a few more emails which I ignored I finally got two emails from your mum saying this:

"you are nothing but a liar you have lost your parental responability the girls don't want to know you leave us alone. if you was that bothered about the girls what has happened to the birthday/christmas presents for the past 8 years"

Email i replied:

Debbie

I understand you are shocked finding the website, it has been there for 8 years, since contact was lost with the girls, I cannot apologise to them enough for not being in there lives, the way I would have wanted to be. However, as I only had one form of contact details you gave me. Once that was gone, I was left with nothing, The only choice left open to me, the only choice I had open to me. I would have loved nothing more than to see them for Birthdays and Christmas. As I had no idea of your location or any further contact details, I tried to trace you a few times but your still registered at 34 Berwick Close on the census and for voting, so I had no option but to sit and wait for you or the girls to find the webpage.

 

To be honest, if I was not bothered about the girls, why would I setup the webpage for you or the girls to find, now I have had these replies at least I know they are safe and well.

 

Regards

Nick

And alsothe parental responsibility order lasts until you and your sister reach 18 years by law and cannot be changed, I was that bothered but and I could have given you presents or contacted you if I knew where you were as I only had one number and tried many times contact you and to find you both only to be knocked back by legal issues and lack of communication.

I did get email of your step-dad which basically said:

 "leave us alone girls don't want to know"

Which I replied with this email

I can understand u are shocked....the web page has been there a long time....As Debbie changed her phone number and she took my contact with the girls away..which i was legally entitled to.....I also had no address to contact i was left between a rock and a hard place.I could have gone through all the legal ways open to me....but decided that i would try to get in touch other ways....and this is one of those ways......At long last there has been a result..............................

Regards
Nick
 

your mum finally threatened with this message which I know she has no power over and for this hates but as I am not under thumb anymore I will leave this page up anyway.

She said this in an email

you didnot know it was 8yrs until i last emailed you get it shut down or i will take you to court people that emailed you on my behalf told you to leave us alone now do it.

DEBBIE

Well to be honest I don't care what you think or say or  even what other people say its between us I have the legal rights and you have broke the order I should have taken you back to court where you could have been prosecuted for breaking the court order but as you know I was a soft person in those days that you tried so many times to walk all over me, well its not going to happen again the only care and love I have is for girls which has never changed and eventually there going to want answers and Ill tell them every thing they want to know.

 

 

 

 


On an additional note they now have 6 cousins they have never met.

 


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@ enhanced keywords = the story adds to the keyboards and general database:Sarah Goulden and Sammy Goulden are children to Nick Yates and ex-partner Debbie Finney (formally Goulden) sarah was born 25th December 1995 and Sammy 17 November 1996 we lived in Macclesfield for a period of four years together at 34 Berwick close Macclesfield, Debbie's husband is Stephen Finney, Debbie has 3 brothers Brain Peover, Kieran Bate and Vernon Bates who Vernon and Kieran live with there father Patrick Bates on Eaglis Way, Macclesfield, Me and Debbie separate due to a silly dispute over some bedding on Fathers Day 1998 at the time I was working as a single colour printer in a textile company in Sharston Manchester, my mother and step father live on peel hall road, Manchester, my father Roy lives in stoke on Trent in scholar green, I nick now live in peel hall near my mothers on the estate I have been looking for my daughters since 2002, the reason why I have not seen them for so many years is that I have lost contact with Debbie so I am unaware of the proper location, when I had access to see the kids Debbie was living in Stoke and I used to go and see them on the agreement from the courts however through various reasons main one being that my sister Sharon's eldest son was involved in a fire and has now 38% degree burns, and also the company I was working for were quite nasty with me as they would not let me go and see my children as I was working in the retail area at the time which stressed me out. eventually I left there and have been trying to search for them ever since to regain access or try via: the internet to get in touch with my girls.:Since 2003 I have put this website up looking for my two daughters Sarah And Sammy Goulden hoping that they find me, and want to speak to me.:Sarah Goulden, Sammy Goulden, lives in stoke, born in macclesfield, debbie finney formally goulden mother to sarah goulden and sammy goulden, nick lives in manchester, nick lives wythenshawe, nick lives in peel hall, computer support in manchester, computer support in uk, nick corner,debbie goulden, debbie finney,stephen finney,debra goulden, debra finney, nick yates corner, nick gary yates, sharon matthews has children and is wife to ian and sister to Nick Stephanie and Heather,bit.ly,facebook,tagged, looking for my daughters in stoke,looking for daugters,looking for sarah goulden, looking for sammy goulden,miss sarah goulden, miss sammy goulden,i want to find my dad nick, i want to find my dad nick yates,nick yates 1 7 1971, sarah goulden 25 12 1995, sammy 17 11 1996, sara goulden, sam goulden, sammi goulden, stephen s finney, debra finney, debz finney, debby finney, debbie finney, deb finney, karen whalley, karen finney whalley, sara mcdonald debbies friend, two daughters, debbie has has two daughters sarah and sammy, macclesfield, manchester, stoke, stoke on trent, keele, peover,bates**********This website is fitted with a location tracker, all the visitors of this pages have been recorded for temporary use, none of the ip addresses collected or there locations will be submitted or stored. miss sarah goulden, miss sammy goulden, mrs debra finney, mrs s finney, macclesfield stoke, stoke on trent, cheshire, finneysj@hotmail.com, debra finney, debbie finney, sara goulden, sami goulden samantha goulden, sammy goulden, sam gouldlen, sammi goulden Sarahs date of brith, dob, 25th December 1995, sammy date of birth, dob, 17th November 1996 girls live in stoke on trent.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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