I want to make it
clear that I have never forgot you both, I could not
stay in contact as your mother did not give me any
information where you were, your mum for many years was
quite mind set on me never seeing you both and I did not
agree with that as my intensions were like any fathers
intension when they love there children, I don't care
what your mum thinks I am your father and by law she has
no power when you get to a certain age, I just hope that
even after all these years you believe that I and my
family still have a position in our hearts for you both
as you both are so important to us.
We talk about you both
all the time and I still dream of having you both back
in our lives as I have always wanted my girls safe,
happy and healthy.
To be honest it could
have been a better situation If your mum keep kept the
contact but as she never wanted me in your lives its
made it a lot harder to bond with you both as all these
years she has possibly told you her side of the stories
making me out to be bad, however what I don't know I
cannot correct as they say.
For many years this
page has been up on the net, almost everyday I checked
to see if you had contacted me as education system now
includes computers and I know at some point you both
will have access to the internet, so I left this page
hoping you could contact me.
I hope you want to
contact me as to be honest you are both my daughters and
I have not been allowed the opportunity as your mum was
quite determined for me to have no access, I did not
wanted to be the un-named father in your life, your mum
created this for me.
I did have access all
those years ago and I have some problems see you both as
my sisters oldest son was severely burnt which made it
difficult as my sister mainly came with me to get you
both in selected areas that your mum wanted me to get
you from, I was never told were you live properly and I
only have a mobile number which eventually was turned
off and obviously severed the contact between me you
two.
Anyway the page was
the net for a good 8 years, I not positive approx but as
around that time, anyway on May 1st I received this
message in an email
"bck
off the children dont want anything to do wiv you u cant
even call yr self there dad"
The
sender who I have never heard of really has no say what
happened between me and your mum, its basically none of
there business anyway after a few more emails which I
ignored I finally got two emails from your mum saying
this:
"you
are nothing but a liar you have lost your parental
responability the girls don't want to know you leave us
alone. if you was that bothered about the girls what has
happened to the birthday/christmas presents for the past
8 years"
Email i replied:
And
alsothe parental responsibility order lasts until you
and your sister reach 18 years by law and cannot be
changed, I was that bothered but and I could have given
you presents or contacted you if I knew where you were
as I only had one number and tried many times contact
you and to find you both only to be knocked back by
legal issues and lack of communication.
I did
get email of your step-dad which basically said:
"leave
us alone girls don't want to know"
Which I
replied with this email
I can understand u are
shocked....the web page has been there a
long time....As Debbie changed her phone
number and she took my contact with the
girls away..which i was legally entitled
to.....I also had no address to contact i
was left between a rock and a hard place.I
could have gone through all the legal ways
open to me....but decided that i would try
to get in touch other ways....and this is
one of those ways......At long last there
has been a
result..............................
Regards
Nick
your mum finally threatened
with this message which I know she has no power over
and for this hates but as I am not under thumb
anymore I will leave this page up anyway.
She said this in an email
you didnot know
it was 8yrs until i last emailed you get it shut
down or i will take you to court people that emailed
you on my behalf told you to leave us alone now do
it.
DEBBIE
Well to be honest I don't
care what you think or say or even what other
people say its between us I have the legal rights
and you have broke the order I should have taken you
back to court where you could have been prosecuted
for breaking the court order but as you know I was a
soft person in those days that you tried so many
times to walk all over me, well its not going to
happen again the only care and love I have is for
girls which has never changed and eventually there
going to want answers and Ill tell them every thing
they want to know.
On an additional note they now have 6
cousins they have never met.
This site was uploaded/made available on January 27th -
2003 at 13:47
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= the story adds to the keyboards and general database:Sarah Goulden and Sammy Goulden are children to Nick Yates and
ex-partner Debbie Finney (formally Goulden) sarah was born 25th December
1995 and Sammy 17 November 1996 we lived in Macclesfield for a period of
four years together at 34 Berwick close Macclesfield, Debbie's husband
is Stephen Finney, Debbie has 3 brothers Brain Peover, Kieran Bate and
Vernon Bates who Vernon and Kieran live with there father Patrick Bates
on Eaglis Way, Macclesfield, Me and Debbie separate due to a silly
dispute over some bedding on Fathers Day 1998 at the time I was working
as a single colour printer in a textile company in Sharston Manchester,
my mother and step father live on peel hall road, Manchester, my father
Roy lives in stoke on Trent in scholar green, I nick now live in peel
hall near my mothers on the estate I have been looking for my daughters
since 2002, the reason why I have not seen them for so many years is
that I have lost contact with Debbie so I am unaware of the proper
location, when I had access to see the kids Debbie was living in Stoke
and I used to go and see them on the agreement from the courts however
through various reasons main one being that my sister Sharon's eldest
son was involved in a fire and has now 38% degree burns, and also the
company I was working for were quite nasty with me as they would not let
me go and see my children as I was working in the retail area at the
time which stressed me out. eventually I left there and have been trying to
search for them ever since to regain access or try via: the internet to get in touch with my girls.:Since 2003 I
have put this website up looking for my two daughters Sarah
And Sammy Goulden hoping that they find me, and want to
speak to me.:Sarah
Goulden, Sammy Goulden, lives in stoke, born in macclesfield,
debbie finney formally goulden mother to sarah goulden and
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has children and is wife to ian and sister to Nick Stephanie
and Heather,bit.ly,facebook,tagged, looking for my daughters
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nick yates,nick yates 1 7 1971, sarah goulden 25 12 1995,
sammy 17 11 1996, sara goulden, sam goulden, sammi goulden,
stephen s finney, debra finney, debz finney, debby finney,
debbie finney, deb finney, karen whalley, karen finney
whalley, sara mcdonald debbies friend, two daughters, debbie
has has two daughters sarah and sammy, macclesfield,
manchester, stoke, stoke on trent, keele, peover,bates**********This
website is fitted with a location tracker, all the visitors of this
pages have been recorded for temporary use, none of the ip addresses
collected or there locations will be submitted or stored.
miss sarah goulden, miss sammy goulden, mrs debra finney, mrs s finney, macclesfield
stoke, stoke on trent, cheshire, finneysj@hotmail.com, debra finney, debbie finney, sara goulden, sami goulden
samantha goulden, sammy goulden, sam gouldlen, sammi goulden
Sarahs date of brith, dob, 25th December 1995, sammy date of birth, dob, 17th November 1996
girls live in stoke on trent.
